What Is Your Smell Telling Him? What is His Smell Telling You?

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The power of your natural body scent. What is it saying, what messages are we sending and what messages do we receive from other's body smells and scents? What role does body oder play in chemical attraction, in compatibility, infertility, love, cheating and finding the right partner?

Is it possible for the birth control pill, our perfumes and deodorants to cause us to mask our smell attracting the wrong partner and vice versa choosing the wrong life partner? Is it possible that the pill can make women choose the wrong guy? Is it possible that gaydar is just the ability to identify another fellow gay person through the chemicals their bodies omit? Can the pill turn off men?

Elizabeth Svoboda seems to think so. In fact, many media outlets are dubbing the pill as the "divorce pill." Elizabeth is regular contributer to the New York Times and shares her research in this intriquing article "Scents & Sensibility" in Psychology Today.

I am so glad that I read this article, because it validated something I have often wonderd about and speculated over. I really believe this new research is very true for me. As a 35 year old single woman there are very few people that I am attracted to chemically. It has nothing to do with appearance, or money, or the car they drive, it is something I can't even explain if I tried. I can sense something or smell something about them that burns me up and stokes my fire. In other words, I am chemically attracted to them. Maybe I am a survivor, maybe my chemical makeup knows exactly what it is looking for and have only found that smell in one person, maybe two.

I can't explain it, I can't make sense of it, it is so powerful. My mother says this same thing time and time again about my father. They were complete opposites and by today's standards shouldn't be together, however, they are so chemically attracted to each other that they can't be apart. My mother says that she was crazy about my father, they had a lot of chemistry between the two of them. Their relationship wasn't based on compatibility, education, money, success, it came down to one simple fact, they made each other's naught bits tingle a lot. There was something between them that was bigger than common sense or logic.

I have an incredibly intuitive nose and a very sensitive stomach and can't handle many perfumes, deodorants, bad breath or smells. I get queezy. Another thing I noticed is that I can smell weakness. I don't like needy and I don't like weakness. In men or women. That is just me though. I think our bodies omit different pheromones, smells and chemicals that our subconscious picks up on instantly.

Hope you enjoy this article. I did.

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Very Cute!

Now I know why my husband and I didn't work out......I went off the pill to get pregnant and he smelled really bad to me!

That was very informative and cute. I have often wondered about all the medications we take and the effect they have on our natural functions.

Personally, I can smell a person who eats a lot of garlic and Indian food. My stomach can't take it.

Do you think bad breath is an indication of how someone's health? What I mean is, I dated a man once who had really Breally bad breath. It was so bad, I told him and I could no longer kiss him and conversing with him was difficult too because when he opened his mouth I would get a whiff of his stinky breath. He was a model, in shape, six pack, ate good, and everything....."HOT," but I almost thought their was something wrong with him to smell that bad on the inside???

I broke up with him after 5 weeks. I mean I couldn't take it anymore. I like kissing and talking. His scent made me ill.

What do you think Freda?

BTW: I forwarded this article to my girlfriend, who happens to be a vegetarian, and she told me that vegitarians and vegans vagina's smell worse then meat eaters vagina's. I thought that was very interesting.

I wonder if male vegetarians penis's smell better or worse than meat eaters? Anyone know?! Smiling

From girl to girl......I

From one girlfriend to another......I hear you! I dated a guy once who had terrible breath and he actually went once a month and had his mouth cleaned, tongue and all. In my opinion, I think they are eating things that don't agree with them causing their body to react in a negative way. I thought clean breath was associated with a clean diet?

I know a thing or two about

I know a thing or two about the male penis. Smiling If it smells.....run!

Check out this post

http://alphawomen.com/shoes-handbags/everyone-talk...

Hey guys, check out this post by Dana Pettaway on bad breath. There are ways to help your partner's out, or drop hints, or just point blank tell them!

Sophia, you are funny! I don't know about the difference between genital smells. I am not a lesbian so I can't help you out with the first question. As far as the second, I really can't help you out there either. I will look into though. I haven't spent much time smelling anyone's lower region. In fact, the last time I was even close to one...........well it's been awhile (I gotta be in love to do that. I mean really in love and then I am okay with it) and I have never dated or had sex with a vegetarian, I like "meat-eaters." Smiling

I will look into this and see what I can find out!

I do think your inability to digest foods, the foods you eat, foods that you shouldn't eat, are going to cause bad gas, bad breath and bad smells because that is your bodies way of telling you "something is wrong," in addition to removing toxins, and things that it is trying to eliminate.

STRESS and anxiety can also cause unnecessary and unwanted body oder. So relax, take a relaxing bath, turn your mind off and enjoy yourself. Your problems will be waiting for you tomorrow! Smiling

Bad breath is a definite

Bad breath is a definite deal breaker for me, along with any bad hygiene habits. I can't help it. Floss your teeth for goodness sake and buy yourself some gum or breath mints. Some people eat a lot of strong foods and don't really brush and floss or shower enough. I wonder if certain people's bodies just are more prone to have certain odors stay with them, like garlic or curry. I have no problem with people's bodily functions. I'm fine if you're sweating and sweat from a clean body is fine with me BUT a person who ate a ton of strongly flavored food or drank alcohol and its oozing from your pores the next day, PLEASE hit the shower before you hit the gym! ugh! I sweat when i work out, but I'm clean. I try not to overdo garlic unless we're all eating it and I brush my teeth right away or pop in a piece of gum. I'm sure not gonna breathe all over people and repel them. And I hate really strong scents on men or women. They cover up the REAL you instead of enhancing it. And I am all about standing as close as possible to my lover and just breathing in his or her scent before i do anything else. It's awesome foreplay!
And penises and vaginas have a sort of basic scent to them that is the same across the board except for each person's particular personal scent, which is a good, barely perceptible addition. If you smell something funky anywhere, back away!

Breath

My friend has the most amazing breath. Its such a turn on I can hardly imagine being without her. I read the article about scent and had some questions?? Are there any studies out there about scent and hair color? Ive noticed a pattern in my life of only being attracted to dark haired women. The light haired women were more sexual than scentual. Im driven by scent and my friend drives me like no other women ever has.

great question

I will look into that.  I know that I am attracted to dark hair in men, but the guy that makes my naughty bits tingle has light hair. 

Isn't it funny. Let me see what I can find.  Check back later today, I will post something one way or the other.

Thanks for sharing! 

I found these in Psychology Today

Long before TV—in 15th- and 16th- century Italy, and possibly two millennia ago—women were dying their hair blond. A recent study shows that in Iran, where exposure to Western media and culture is limited, women are actually more concerned with their body image, and want to lose more weight, than their American counterparts. It is difficult to ascribe the preferences and desires of women in 15th-century Italy and 21st-century Iran to socialization by media.

Women's desire to look like Barbie—young with small waist, large breasts, long blond hair, and blue eyes—is a direct, realistic, and sensible response to the desire of men to mate with women who look like her. There is evolutionary logic behind each of these features.

Men prefer young women in part because they tend to be healthier than older women. One accurate indicator of health is physical attractiveness;another is hair. Healthy women have lustrous, shiny hair, whereas the hair of sickly people loses its luster. Because hair grows slowly, shoulder-length hair reveals several years of a woman's health status.

Men also have a universal preference for women with a low waist-to-hip ratio. They are healthier and more fertile than other women; they have an easier time conceiving a child and do so at earlier ages because they have larger amounts of essential reproductive hormones. Thus men are unconsciously seeking healthier and more fertile women when they seek women with small waists.

Until very recently, it was a mystery to evolutionary psychology why men prefer women with large breasts, since the size of a woman's breasts has no relationship to her ability to lactate. But Harvard anthropologist Frank Marlowe contends that larger, and hence heavier,
breasts sag more conspicuously with age than do smaller breasts. Thus they make it easier for men to judge a woman's age (and her reproductive value) by sight—suggesting why men find women with large breasts more attractive.

Alternatively,men may prefer women with large breasts for the same reason they prefer women with small waists. A new study of Polish women shows that women with large breasts and tight waists have the greatest fecundity, indicated by their levels of two reproductive hormones (estradiol and progesterone).

Blond hair is unique in that it changes dramatically with age. Typically, young girls with
light blond hair become women with brown hair. Thus, men who prefer to mate with blond women are unconsciously attempting to mate with younger (and hence, on average, healthier and more fecund) women. It is no coincidence that blond hair evolved in Scandinavia and northern Europe,probably as an alternative means for women to advertise their youth, as their bodies were concealed under heavy clothing.

Women with blue eyes should not be any different from those with green or brown eyes. Yet preference for blue eyes seems both universal and undeniable—in males as well as females. One explanation is that the human pupil dilates when an individual is exposed to something that she likes. For instance, the pupils of women and infants (but not men) spontaneously dilate when they see babies. Pupil dilation is an honest indicator of interest and attraction. And the size of the pupil is easiest to determine in blue eyes. Blue-eyed people are considered attractive as potential mates because it is easiest to determine whether they are interested in us or not.

The irony is that none of the above is true any longer. Through face-lifts, wigs, liposuction, surgical breast augmentation, hair dye, and color contact lenses, any woman, regardless of age, can have many of the key features that define ideal female beauty. And men fall for them. Men can cognitively understand that many blond women with firm, large breasts are not actually 15 years old, but they still find them attractive because their evolved psychological mechanisms are fooled by modern inventions that did not exist in the ancestral environment. 

You can read the article in its entirety here: http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-200706...

Freda